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Yoking With Your Personality Type, 2022.

Hello to all of you friendly people. My name is Debra and I am a spokesperson who speaks out against all types of abuse. So many people have suffered for so long being in the wrong relationships with people and places that have caused them nothing but hurt, harm, pain, turmoil, injury, betrayal, deception, and loss.

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When you are in an abusive relationship you are involved with people who you should not be involved with. People you should have permanently turned away from as soon as you realized you were being abused.

This is hard for many people to face because many are involved in abusive relationships that include blood and nonblood family members.

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Many people get confused thinking that just because they are born into a family unit they belong to that family unit no matter how different their characters, mindset, behavior, and personalities are compared to yours.

It’s a terrible and a dangerous mistake to think that you have to stay in relationships with people who are mistreating you, abusing you, treating you wrong, gaslighting you, plotting to hurt you, robbing you, causing you heartaches, being cruel to you, just because they are your blood or non-blood family member.

Cain murdered his blood brother Abel because Cain had an evil, murderous and demonic spirit and Abel had the fruits of God’s spirit.

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We have to understand that people have many different types of personalities. This also includes family members. All people have different types of styles, nature, characters, personalities, spirits, mindsets, temperaments, and souls.

A mother may have an evil and abusive personality but one of her children could have a loving and kind personality.

One sister could have a warm and friendly personality. But the other sister could have an evil demonic psychopath personality.

It is so important that we learn about a person’s behaviors, and learn about how a person treats other people. We need to learn how does a person speak to other people? This information is needed in order to know if that person will be safe for you to be involved in a relationship.

It is best when wanting to be in relationships that are free from abuse, free from pain, free from trauma, and free from injuries to be with people with who you feel safe and comfortable being around. In many cases, a person may have to create their own family unit with people who treat you well like a family should.

You only want to have involvement with a person or a place that you can relate to, who mixed with your personality, your spirit, your nature and who you are getting along with.

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It is very important to remove yourself away from people who are not good for you. That would include getting away from people who are hurting you, who are verbally attacking you, who are emotionally attacking you, who are gaslighting you, and who are spiritually abusing you.

You must separate yourself from unloving cruel heartless people.

Sadly and unfortunately this includes family members who are not the type of person you would be happy being around or at peace being around.

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I leave you with a scripture from the book of 2 Corinthians Chapter 6 Verse

Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?

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