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Emotional Blackmail the Narcissist (Secret Weapon), 2020.

Emotional blackmail is a serious sick pattern of abuse and control that an abusive person will dish out in order to put an ultimatum, warning, and scare tactics against a person the abuser is victimizing.

These rotten and abusive techniques are used to get their targets

to go along with their ultimatums and to get what they are requesting.

The quiet whispers, rumors, and suggestions coming out of the wicked mind, the ugly spirit of the emotional blackmailers are if you don’t do what I am yearning for, desire, wish, require, thirst for, need, and demand when I demand it, need it, call for it, insist on it, want it, then you will hurt, have a bad time, be wounded, decline, perish, and suffer.

Sad so sad.

This is the most devastating experience any innocent, harmless, and the helpless person has to be exposed to.

Hi everyone I am Debra, and I am a self-care promoter and an anti-abuse advocate.

Over the past ten years, I have dedicated my time and attention to reaching out and shining the light on the evil and wicked works of darkness.

There are so many people who are being violated and abused because of large and increased levels of Narcissist, Sociopath, Psychopath, and Toxic personality abuse.

This abusive spirit has spread all across the earth. It seems as if being a kind, compassionate, caring empathic person can be very dangerous to your health, safety, and life.

What I have been witnessing very powerfully over the past twelve years while living in North Carolina reminds me of a Scripture, from

Isaiah chapter 5 verse 20

Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter!

I would like to add in a You-Tube video at this point that was created by a licensed therapist named Kati Morton.

This video is titled What is Emotional Blackmail?

This video received 47,218 views. The link for this video is below please take out a moment to check this out.

The Emotional blackmailer,

will use numerous different approaches either direct or indirect pressures, warnings, messages, intimidations, risks in order to get their victims to follow their instructions, go along with their program, play their dirty games, become a flying monkey, obey.

They will continue with relentless amounts of pressure, warnings, ultimatums to make you weary, break you down, and wear you down.

The blackmailer will bully, will become aggressive, and will send out messages that they will cause destruction against something that they care about.

People who come up against the pressures and intimidation of the emotional blackmailing narcissist will have feelings of disgrace, outrage, and horror due to their cooperation with the threats.

It can also heavily impact and contribute to serious mental health complications

like post-traumatic stress, anxiety, and depression.

To get the victims to go along with their demands they will make threats of violence, threats against their close relationships and threats against their character at their place of employment or at their school locations.

The unhappy relationship with the blackmailing abuser can be a tremendous amount of mental, spiritual, and physical pressure on their victims.

This very dysfunctional relationship will put in jeopardy the victim’s sense of honor, principles, and trustworthiness.

The damage that the emotional blackmailing abusers has cause against their victims

is just as bad and just as abusive as getting physically assaulted.

There are some emotional blackmailers that will even go as far as making threats to use self-harm and even threats of killing themselves in order to maneuver, bully, and to dominate their victims into doing everything that they command.

The emotional blackmailers will recruit and use flying monkeys, enablers, or codependents to do their dirty work in attacking a victim causing high levels of distress and turmoil.

This is to get the victim to comply with their demands. Or go along with the abusive agenda.

At the very beginning before this abusive and toxic situation gets out of control knowing what emotional blackmail is all about and what to do about it is a must.

Recognizing the secret weapon of the emotional blackmail signals will help you or anyone else that is being manipulated by this abusive situation.

Getting safely away from this blackmailer is an extremely important step.

Emotional blackmailers almost always are not concerned with reasoning, logic, bargaining, or negotiating.

Their abusive spirit is all about one thing and one thing only and that is their demands, what they are yearning for, desire, wish, require, thirst for, need, insist, want and they are not at all interested in making adjustments, bargains, deals, or compromises.

The emotional Blackmailers are highly protective, watchful,

and guarded about their abusive affairs which can cause their opinions, statements, and remarks to repeatedly often cause intense levels of warfare, disturbance, and combat.

Learning about and seeking awareness about this area of Narcissist, Sociopath, Psychopath, and Toxic Abuse will assist people in order to prevent them from being victimized by an emotional blackmailer in relationships.

While identifying that you are being victimized by possible sociopaths, psychopaths, narcissists, slave drivers, abusers, or even occult leaders, remember that anyone who has treated you with anything less than respect does not deserve to be in your life.

We should never have a desire to have people who have mistreated us back into our lives.

Blackmail is a description that is used to suggest that someone

is pressuring you to do something you would choose not to do.

Being blackmailed is a very severe, evil and corrupt crime. It can have overwhelming monetary and social devastations that can cause extremely emotional, spiritual, and mental traumas against the life of the victims.

There are things you should do and can do about being abused by an emotional narcissist blackmailer.

Going No Contact is a way to remove an emotional blackmailing abusive toxic abuser so you can live a happier, healthier life.

Next, make healthy connections with caring and trusting people

who will be able to assist you in your handling, understanding, and dealing with the truth of your abusive experiences.

Shop around for healthy connections with caring, trusting, and compatible people, counselors, life coaches, therapists, doctors,

who you can receive some good advice, information, and encouragement from.

Find a You-Tube Channel that you can trust to learn from

where you can get some great advice from, where you can learn coping skills.

There are many great You-Tube channels that can be very beneficial for your healing and recovery from being exposed to toxic abusers.

In Conclusion,

I want to continue to express how vital it is in your healing and recovery journey from being involved in any type of abusive relationship to making self-care a priority.

To stay healthy or even to become a survivor, you have got to do something great or even good for yourself every single day.

This is not something to take lightly.

It does not matter how small it is but please do something every day to provide yourself with self-care and self-love.

My You-Tube Channel is set up for helping to shine the light on the works of darkness.

It is also to provide self-care tips, information, and guidance healing and recovering from being involved in abusive situations.

If this is something that you may be interested in, please subscribe to my channel right now.

Also, hit that notification bell, and that way you will get notified

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Now I want to turn it over to you.

Have you ever had any experience with someone who has emotionally blackmailed you?

If so leave a comment below about what you did about it.

I leave you now with a personal message,

When you don’t take out the opportunity or take advantage of the present moments in your days to provide yourself with care, love, compassion, and positive attention when all is said and done in time someday you will end up being forced to make time for bad health, breakdowns, disturbance, collapse, and sickness.

You are the artist of your life,

Don't hand over your paintbrush to someone else.

Wishing you a great day, filled with all of the self-care activities that you can handle.

By Kati Morton LMFT (Author)

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