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10 Reasons Why You May Be In A Narcissist Love Bombing Relationship.

In this video, you are going to receive very important information about what happens when the Narcissist is using the Love Bombing technique in order to hook you into an abusive relationship.

This information will have you more prepared in order to protect yourself from being tricked.

Hi Everyone, My name is Debra.

I am a very hard working self-care promoter.

My platform is all about providing information, support, teaching, comfort, and ideas to many who are involved or are healing and recovering the effects of being in abusive relationships with the Narcissist or any other toxic abusive manipulative personality types.

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Over the past decade I have been doing a tremendous amount of my time and attention on researching, studying, learning, reporting, investigating, and praying about the Narcissist and other Toxic and Abusive personality types.

The reason for so much of my devotion to this area of concern is due to my discovery of a very deceptive, cruel, evil and abusive Super Secret, Super High Tech, Jim Jones Religious Stalking Narcissist Occult that has been in operation for well over 40 years and possibly well over 50 years.

It is the most disgraceful experience that I have ever witnessed.

The Jim Jones Puppet Masters of this Occult, just like Jim Jones, is pretending to be representatives of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ posing as Bishops, Pastors, and other Religious Leaders, but this is the total opposite of what they really represent.

The level of secrecy that this Super High Tech Religious Stalking Narcissist Occult has been able to maintain and get away with is the most shocking.

So many lives have been scattered, ruined, crashed all because of lack of knowledge.

Despite my many years of pleas for help to stop the evil violations that are going on against God’s people,

The Counterfeit False Prophets, Jim Jones Puppet Masters of this Occult, their supporters, and Flying Monkeys all over this Nation are safe and being protected.

This is so horrifying to me that we have no choice but to try to survive under the wicked controls of abusive Cluster B personality types: the Narcissist, the Sociopath, the Psychopath, the Antisocial, the Borderline.

We have no choice but to try to survive being manipulated and abused by people who may have some sort of brain or mind disorders or injuries.

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Because it is very possible that they have taken a bad fall from a bed or taken a hard fall hitting the concrete or hardwood floor from anything as a young child.

But it is obvious, plain, and clear that this abuse that is happening to God’s people all over this Nation is due to the minds and the brains that are not functioning properly.

This video I will be discussing 10 different reasons why a person may be starting a new relationship with a Narcissist and not even aware of it.

At this point, I would like to share a Learn More video from a Youtube channel by Dr. Ramini.

The video is titled, What is "love-bombing"? (Glossary of Narcissistic Relationships).

Dr. Ramani is a licensed clinical psychologist from Los Angeles.

Click on the above link to view the You-Tube Video.

I say she is one of the best and the top psychologists in the field of Narcissism and the Cluster B personality types.

The main purpose that the Narcissist will use Love Bombing because if they were to clearly, straight out abuse their targets they would not have any Narcissist supply.

The love bombing stage is considered to be the most dangerous part of the vicious abuse cycle.

A huge amount of appeal, passion, warmth, closeness, and sex is being dished out by the Narcissist or the toxic abuser.

This love bombing stage is very critical for the Narcissist to be able to get that target on the hook for that Narcissist supply.

This stage helps the Narcissist to know just how abusive they will be able to be with you.

The love bombing is a very clever mind control approach that is set up for the victim to lose themselves.

They will quickly become totally under the abuse and the control of the mind-controlling Narcissist or the Toxic Abusers.

Beware because the Narcissist, or any other Toxic Abusers and manipulative personality use high doses of love bombing to hook people into their traps.

People who are not receiving love in their life can easily get addicted to this attention.

This is when the abusers will move in for the kill, steal, and destroy your mind, body, spirit, and soul.

Receiving high levels of love, gifts, time and attention can sweep anybody off their feet no matter how self-assured that person may be.

A love bond or a love connection with the Narcissist or the toxic abuser manipulator is like a dream come true but it ends in a booby trap.

The love of your life, the man or the women of your dreams has turned into a hellish demon.

In the beginning, the spirit, the fire, the intensity, the passion, the vigor was so real and so promising.

But it all turned into turmoil, agitation, turbulence, and mental, spiritual, emotional, and physical abuse.

This is what the Narcissist love bombing is all about.

Once the Narcissist has you addicted to their love bombs the Narcissist or the toxic abusers will do all types of terrible things to see you all messed up, and destroyed.

They feel the strength in the downfall, break down, and the catastrophe of other people.

At this point, I would like to share another You-Tube video by Lisa A. Romano who is a Breakthrough Life Coach.

Lisa is very good at digging deep into the topic that she is discussing. She is very interesting. The title of the video is:

Why Narcissists MUST Love Bomb You and What You Can do to End the Narcissistic Relationship.

Click on the above link to view this You-Tube video.

In Summary,

The love bomb is when the Narcissist or any other manipulative abusive toxic person throws steady conversation bombs, flattery bombs, sweet talk bombs at their targets.

They will bomb you with steady and constant phone calls, unannounced visits, text messages, email messages.

They can’t get enough of your time and your attention.

They will quickly tell you that they love you.

They will quickly push for intimate sexual activities.

They will quickly push for marriage. They will quickly tell you that you are my soulmate.

They will quickly tell you that they can’t get enough of your presence.

They will quickly tell you that they have never met anyone like you.

Never frown upon your gut urges, reactions, hunches, or intuitions.

You are not overly suspicious. Your gut instinct can and will scream out on bad feelings and impulses.

If something inside of your spirit is telling you that there is a problem or there is trouble with a situation or a person then trust your gut.

Your mind can be tricked, and your heart can be weak, but your gut will always tell the truth because it does not know how to lie.

You don’t ever have to endure, accept, or stomach people who treat you rotten.

It does not matter if it’s your husband, wife, parents, siblings, inlaws, family members, coworkers, employers, bishop, reverend, or church folks.

It does not matter how long you have known them or how kind and nice they have treated you in the past.

If they have now decided to abuse your mind, body, spirit, or soul then you have a right to remove yourself from their presence.

Give the gift of your absence to those who do not appreciate your presence.

In Closing,

I will persist and stick to my healing and recovery journey and encourage everyone who is in an abusive and toxic relationship or not in an abusive and toxic relationship, to be sure that your self-care activities should be your first concern for you every single day of your life.

Looking out for and taking care of, listening to, and then honoring the needs of your mind, body, spirit, and soul has got to be your number one concern over anything else.

Every day when you rise up for the day after a pleasant sleep you should be number one and at the very top of your daily to-do list.

Be bold, confident, spunky, courageous, and brave enough to live the life of your dreams.

It would be nearly impossible for anyone to be able to abuse us if we are acting as we love ourselves, walking as we love ourselves, talking like we love ourselves, and moving like we love ourselves and thinking as we love ourselves.

The secret to happiness is first to make happiness a priority and then caring for yourself.

You are the artist of your life; don't hand over your paintbrush to anyone else especially the Narcissist or any other toxic, abusive character.

Yesterday I worked on creating another You-Tube video that I can share with other people who are exposed to abusive toxic manipulators.

I also made sure that I did not overeat which is a big deal for me because I love eating great tasting foods.

But I don’t love getting fat and not feeling good.

I made a very nice Shrimp Caesar Salad for dinner. I added mushrooms, tomatoes, and spinach to make it different.


Were you able to relate to the reasons why the Narcissist used love bombing to start a relationship?

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Now I want to turn it over to you.

Which one of the recommended You-Tube videos are you going to look at? Are you going to watch,

Why Narcissists MUST Love Bomb You By Lisa Romano

or are you going to watch What is "love-bombing" By Dr. Ramani? Or are you going to watch them both?

Let me know by leaving a comment below right now.

I leave you now with a quote,

Shredding your life to pieces is the major goal for the Narcissist in order to feel important.

So it’s best to notice the people who are happy for your happiness and sad for your sadness.

They are the ones who deserve a special place in your heart.

I am sending out a big old hug to you all. Have a great day.

By Dr. Ramani Durvasula “Don’t You Know Who I Am?” has become the mantra of the famous and infamous, the entitled and the insecure. It’s the tagline of the modern narcissist.

by Lisa A. Romano(Author) Discover who you were born to be, and what steps to take to ensure that your past no longer dictates your future!

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