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10 Health Problems Cause From Being (In A Relationship)With The Narcissist 2020

Updated: Jul 23, 2020

In this video, I will be discussing 10 different health problems that can happen to a person who is in a long term relationship with a Narcissist or any other type of manipulative toxic personalities. #narcissist

And yes developing brain damage is on this list.

Hi Everyone,

My name is Debra and I am the creator of

It is a self-care self-love system that is set up to provide information, support, teaching, comfort, and ideas.

I began concentrating a large part of my time and attention on researching, studying, learning, reporting, investigating, and praying about the Narcissist and other Toxic and Abusive personality types, over ten years ago.

My fondness and loyalty to this stand were due to my uncovering a Super Secret, Super High Tech, Jim Jones Religious Stalking Narcissist Occult that has been in operation for well over 40 years.

Now I am sure that this evil and cruel operation has been in place longer than 40 years but I have not been able to speak with enough people that can help me with my research going back over 50 years ago.

I also became a troublesome target for this Stalking Occult when I moved to Oxford, North Carolina over 10 years ago to provide tender loving care to my now deceased sweet and lovable parents.

On that note, I began my journey into sounding the alarm about the dangers of being involved with the Narcissist and any other manipulative and abusive Cluster B personality types. #narcissist

For Example in the Bible the scripture from

Ezekiel 33:6 states

But if the watchman sees the sword coming and does not blow the trumpet, so that the people are not warned, and the sword comes and takes any one of them, that person is taken away in his iniquity, but his blood I will require at the watchman's hand.

And now, I will be speaking on at least 10 Health problems that can happen all because of being in a toxic and abusive relationship with the Narcissist.

Being in a relationship with a Narcissist or a Toxic Abusive person can be extremely traumatic on a person’s mind, body, spirit, and soul.

Any type of abusive relationship can cause some very serious and dangerous consequences on a person’s mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual health. #relationship

Being exposed to extreme trauma can cause a person to develop brain damage along with many other physical, mental, and emotional damaging conditions. #trauma

Before I go any further I want to explain what I mean when I say extreme trauma.

For Example, extreme trauma to me means,

Extreme physical pain, Severe mental pain, Severe emotional pain

Extreme suffering, Torture, Extreme agony

Severe stress, Extreme shock, Extreme damage, Severe injury

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Being in a relationship with a Narcissist or a Toxic Abusive person is exposing yourself to a person who will become very angry, very furious, mad, and filled with rage suddenly without any notice.

A relationship with a Narcissist or a Toxic Abusive person can be very stressful. It can be very physically damaging to your brain. #narcissist

There are many health problems from being involved with a Narcissist, a Sociopath, a Psychopath, or a Toxic Abuser but the 10 problems from this report are just scratching the surface.

Health Problem Number One,


Trying to get a good night's sleep is just not possible if there is a Narcissist or any abusive manipulator living under the same roof.

Being under stress, afraid, jumpy, fearful most of the time can cause insomnia. It is a sleep disorder that makes it hard for a person to fall asleep, stay asleep, waking up too early.

Health Problem Number Two,

Tension Headaches

This can be anywhere from light to more intense like a migraine.

For Example:

Pressure along the forehead, Dull achy head, Tender feeling head area

Achy muscles around the neck and head, Sensitive to noise

Health Problem Number Three.


For example:

Having the dreaded anxiety is having shaky hands, extreme fatigue, hard to sit still, constant worry, your heart is beating faster than normal, irritations, having a hard time breathing correctly, loud thinking.

Health Problem Number Four,

Depression/ Suicide

For Example;

Feeling tired a lot. Struggle to stay engaged in a conversation. Lost appetite, looking at the ground, overeating, spending all day in the bed, not showering. Sadness, thought of death or suicide, Irritability.

Health Problem Number Five,


For Example;

Widespread Muscle Pain, Cramps, Stiffness, Anxiety, Depression, Migraine, Nausea, Irritable Bowel Syndrome, Brain Fog.

So far I have provided you with Five different Health problems that can happen to a person who is involved in a relationship with the Narcissist or any other manipulating abusive and toxic person.

I would like to introduce you to another online coach that I have been watching and learning from. Her name is Melanie Tonia Evans and she is from Australia.

You have to be prepared when watching her videos. She digs in pretty deep and she is very detailed with whatever topic she is discussing.

You can Learn More about this topic on health problems from being in a narcissist relationship from a You-Tube Video titled Chronic Health Conditions After Narcissistic Abuse? Watch This

Please click on the link below to watch this video in full.

Health Problem Number Six,

Mental Fog

For Example; Memory loss, Fatigue, lack of motivation, not able to focus, not able to learn new things, confusion, getting lost.

Health Problem Number Seven,


For Example; Increase heart rate, increase blood pressure, increase blood glucose, increase blood fatty acid, increase dry mouth, increase migraine.

Health Problem Number Eight,


For Example,

Stress can cause Anxiety, mind fog, high blood pressure, increased inflammation, hair loss, bloating, indigestion, muscle tightness, aches, and pains.

Health Problem Number Nine

Addictions to Food, Drugs, Alcohol, and Sex,

For the most part, these behaviors are done to escape reality.

Used to fill up the emptiness on the inside of a person. Used as a treatment for pain.

Used to treat a problem. Each and every one of these addictions can cause very serious physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual health problems. #addiction

Health Problem Number Ten,

PTSD or Post Traumatic Stress Disorder

I save this one for last because all of the above health problems are listed under PTSD.

This is an anxiety disorder that can happen to a person who has experienced violent trauma events. This can be very exhausting, painful, and debilitating to have to experience.

It can also change your brain. It is not a mental illness but it is a psychological injury.

Someone who is experiencing Post Traumatic Stress Disorder is a normal reaction to abnormal life experience.

It’s not about what is wrong with a person but what happened to that person.

Feeling extreme fear, extreme horror and extreme helplessness can bring on Post Traumatic Stress.

The Post Traumatic Stress Synonym to look out for are depression, anxiety, insomnia, pain, flashbacks, stress, fear, and exhaustion.

Narcissist Abuse and any abuse from being in a long term relationship with Toxic Abusers can lead to brain damage. #narcissist

You can Learn More about Complex Post Traumatic Stress by watching a video by Kevin from the Royal We Channel. Kevin is a very powerful coach.

The link to the video titled C-PTSD After Narcissistic Abuse is below.

Please check out this video for more information about Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.

In Summary,

When it comes to protecting your health, trust your gut; it knows what your head hasn’t figured out yet.

Being in a relationship with the Toxic person or the Narcissist can cause your health and your well-being to decline.

There is so much damage done. You have to always be in a state of alertness.

Because of the constant trauma going on many people will develop all types of persistent medical illnesses, mental and emotional health problems along with Complex-PTSD.

How they treat you is how they feel about you period. People who are normal and healthy will never go around doing terrible things to kill, steal, destroy, and mistreat other people.

In Closing,

I will continue to express how important it is in healing and recovery from being involved

in any type of abusive and toxic relationship to make sure that your self-care activities are a priority.

In order to stay healthy or even to become a thriver, and not just a survivor you have got to do something special or good for yourself every day.

This is not something to push to the side. It does not matter how small it is but please do something every day to support yourself with self-care and self-love.

Here are a few ideas that you may be able to do to help to get you started.

Treat yourself to some flowers.

Go For A Walk,

Listen To Music From Your Younger Years

Visit Somewhere New, Call A Friend

Once you get started with your self-care activities, you will come up with more ideas that will make you happy.

You will wake up every day looking forward to doing something great for yourself in support of your self-care, self-love activities.

Yesterday I got all dolled up and put on a cute summer outfit and I went for a drive.

I stopped to do some grocery shopping.

Later on, I got a chance to cook some fresh collard greens with some smoked turkey to add something healthy to my menu for the day.

And I got to overeat but on something more healthy for me.

I added a link to a video that I did about doing a Self-Care Challenge for July.

Check out the video to see if you may want to do a Self-Care Challenge.

Click the link to check out the video.

It is titled Ideas For July's Self-Care Challenge

Now I leave you with a quote.

If you see someone without a smile give them one of yours.

Finally, I now will leave you with a suggested video by another one of my favorite life coaches and Psychologists.

His name is Ralph and his You-Tube Channel is called Infinite Waters.

He is very motivational and helpful.

This video is new that came out today. It is titled How to Become Who You Came Here To Be & Grow Wealthy | Ralph Smart

Check it out the link to the You-Tube video is below in the description area.

In this video about 10 Health Problems that are Caused From Being In A Relationship With A Narcissist, were you able to relate to the health problems that can cause a break down to a person’s health?

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Now I want to turn it over to you. Which one of the You-Tube videos are you going to look at? Are you going to watch

Chronic Health Conditions After Narcissistic Abuse? By Melanie Evans

Or Are You Going To Watch C-PTSD After Narcissistic Abuse by Kevin from the Royal We?

Let me know by leaving a comment below right now.

I send you all good wishes for a fabulous day.

Melanie Tonia Evans (Author) A unique recovery program created by one of the worlds leading on-line authorities on Narcissistic Abuse. 

Feel Alive by Ralph Smart explores the infinite potential in human beings, and discovers how we can awaken our infinite power. We talk on relationships, mind control, organic food and becoming the greatest version of yourself. To feel alive is to be free, being free is our birthright.

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