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” I always get to where I’m going by walking away from where I have been.”

 ― Winnie the Pooh, A.A. Milne


Hi, I’m Debra

I am a Passionate Anti-Abuse Advocate, who is all about sharing thoughts, information and research on everything healing, recovery, and restoration from toxic relationships that will add to making your days feel better.

The Elevate To Grow platform was designed by Debra to support you in your healing and recovery journey after toxic abusive relationships.  


Debra is a passionate advocate, supporter, author, educator on ALL types of abusive and toxic relationships.  

Debra's goal is to provide information for people to self-heal after being involved in relationships with all types of personalities including Cluster B, Psychopaths, the Narcissists, the Sociopath, the Borderline, the Anti-Social and any other scheming, devious, manipulative, calculating abusive characters. 

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Abusing Someone Is A Criminal Act.  There Is No Excuse For Abuse!


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If you enjoy my videos I would greatly appreciate your support that would allow me more time and the flexibility to continue to create new content and videos. 

I now have an account with Buy Me A Coffee where you can buy me a sandwich to support my work.  I like sandwiches better than coffee. 

It is very important that we can always have the opportunity to spread "Anti" all types of "Abuse" messages as much as possible.  This is so we can try to eliminate the horrible damage that it can cause to our society, the human race, our life, our safety, our mind, bodies, spirits and soul.   

I also will be donating 25% of my donations to someone who is in need, which I will be posting updates about in a follow-up content and or videos.


Many thanks for your support, I greatly appreciate each and every person.